How to break communication barriers and help encourage healthy conversation with your #parents or #grandparents
It is often difficult to shift into caregiver mode when your parents are older and view your as their baby. The shift does not come easily. So it’s imperative for you to get on the same page with them. I have found the following ways helpful in creating healthy conversations. We are still learning of course I am the baby so ya’ll pray for me!
1.Communication cards are a great way to break awkwardness. Yesterday I learned that my mom would rather jump out of a plane than go on a cruise and dad would like to have Abraham (in the Bible) as his dinner guest. It can be really fun and entertaining.
2.Ask your parents about their past & childhood before they got married. You will learn so much about and yourself.
3.Introduce your parents to who you are as an adult especially if they were not around to see you grow up into adulthood. Share your stories and journey with them. They love to hear and love to see pics. Share those special moments with them.
4.Always be respectful and by all means try not to raise your voice at them or get agitated when they get something wrong. Much like children, the older our parents get the more affirmation they need that they are doing well.
5.Jokes and teasing are such a great way to engage with your parents. Have fun. .
If your parents don’t live with you, try to implement these steps over the phone or after #covid_19 #lockdown. Time is precious and so are your parents! Make time for them.
Please share with anyone who may need this.
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